College Farmer: My family taught me to listen to the past, plan for the future and move toward a goal — together.
Two years ago, I captured a photo of my grandpa, dad and older brother standing in front of our then-new-to-us combine on the last day of harvest. Although it took quite a bit of convincing — including telling my grandpa it was for a “school project” of mine — this special picture easily became one of my favorites. Plus, it made the perfect Christmas gift a few months later.
For many within the industry, farming is a family affair. This includes years of history, traditions and memories passed between multiple generations. While I consider it a gift to be able to work, labor and toil alongside those who share the same bloodline as me, I’ve realized it can also create an interesting dynamic.
Different paths to progress
Anytime my grandpa, dad and brother begin a new task or project, they rarely, if ever, see or approach it in the same way. Each has his own perspective, thought process and life experiences. Among other factors, they are influenced by the time and place in which they were raised, since each generation has its own distinct set of values, beliefs and attitudes.
For example, my brother, Caleb, and my generation grew up in the age of technology. The advancements in precision agriculture Caleb learned about while completing his undergraduate classes at the University of Missouri were relatively unheard of just years before. As a result, he serves as a bridge in helping my dad and grandpa adopt new products and management practices.
Just as my generation continues to teach those who came before us, it is just as important, if not more important, for us to take time to learn from them.
Learn from the past
I enjoy inviting my parents, grandparents and others with more wisdom to share their stories and experiences from growing up. For me, it helps gain a deeper understanding of how the industry has evolved.
While some may find them “old-fashioned,” I also firmly believe some things are timeless and just can’t be beat, such as putting up sweet corn each summer and the rustic barns that have weathered countless storms on our farm.
As my dad and Caleb continue to take on more farm-related responsibilities, they still find ways to let my grandpa help and remain involved in making decisions. Finding this balance can be challenging at times, but in their eyes, it’s worth it.
After all, there is value in recognizing the insight and contributions all generations bring to the table. Preparing for the future ultimately starts with being mindful of the past and coming together in the present.
Earlier that same day, I watched Caleb climb out of the combine cab to switch places with my grandpa in the driver’s seat. Not too far away, my dad was heading back to the same cornfield in the grain truck, preparing to haul another load back to the bins.
This memory, along with countless others, emerges every time I look at the photo of the three of them. As it hangs on the wall in both my parents’ and grandparents’ houses, it serves as a reminder of multiple generations doing what we love most together — and plan to continue for years to come.
Quinlan graduated from the University of Missouri College of Agriculture, Food and Natural Resources with a degree in agriculture education, communications and leadership. She is currently pursuing her master’s degree at Oklahoma State University. Contact her at [email protected].
